Sunday, March 4, 2012

Levi on Pitter Patter!

We interrupt this blog hiatus to share unbelievably exciting news!  Levi made Pitter Patter!


Pitter Patter is one of my favorite blogs.  It's run by the people at Pit Bull Rescue Central.  Basically, it's funny pictures of pit bulls for which they write creative and hilarious captions.  A few weeks back, they said they would no longer do Pitter Patter because they were running out of submissions!  NOOOO!  So, I sent a few pictures in and Levi was published!  So cute and I love the caption they chose for him.  Here's the link.


And since I'm posting anyway, here is Levi enjoying the crazy beautiful weather we've been having.  What an asshole, am I right?  






He's even gotten Neptune in on the act.  A whole yard and patio to enjoy and that's where they sleep.




Sunday, February 26, 2012

Priorities

I have scheduled a date for my dissertation defense and it is in less than two months.  I still have a ton of writing to do, the presentation itself, and will just try to stay sane while completing this endeavor while taking care of a baby who won't nap in her crib.  Anyway, my priorities for the next 2-3 months are:


1) Elsa
2) Dissertation
3) Sleep
4) Everything else


So, I might be taking a bit of a blog hiatus and you probably won't see me do a lot of commenting.  I am going to keep doing Elsa's monthly updates since that is essentially my baby book for her.  I hope to join the land of the living once this is all over.  Wish me luck!


Sunday, February 19, 2012

Things That Make Me Happy



Podcast (clean category): Stuff You Should Know





Josh and Chuck have been telling me about stuff I should know for a few years now.  All for free.  With their frequent pop culture references, quick wits, and seemingly never ending wealth of interesting topics, I hope these two never ever stop podcasting.  I even hooked my mom on Josh and Chuck.  Looking for a good one to start with?  How Muppets Work.  If you like it and plan on going through the archives, just know that Josh and Chuck were not together from the very beginning, so if you hear a lady voice, keep going until Chuck joins the show.  Podcast gold.


Podcast (dirty; sometimes very dirty category): The Adam Carolla Show





When Adam got fired from terrestrial radio, he started his own podcast which has grown immensely over the last few years.  He has an interesting range of guests, including comedians, actors, and imagine my surprise when Jane Goodall phoned in one day.  He has his trusty sidekicks Allison and Bald Bryan to keep him company and listen to his constant complaining.  This podcast makes me laugh out loud on a daily basis.  I'm also psyched to see him on Celebrity Apprentice this season!


Software: EndNote





How would I live without this program?  It organizes all of my references so that when I'm writing, I just search for the paper I need to reference and it inserts it into my document.  It has a gazillion different bibliography styles and will convert your references from one style to another with one click of the mouse.  And now that I can import a reference from Google Scholar directly into EndNote, my life just got even easier.  Too bad it can't write my whole dissertation for me.


Food: Goldfish Chocolate Grahams





Before I got pregnant, I was addicted to cheese Goldfish crackers.  But then my hormones went crazy and they no longer tasted good to me anymore.  What a sad day that was.  But don't feel too sorry for me because late in my pregnancy, I discovered chocolate Goldfish graham crackers.  Since I was a sugar addict during pregnancy, these allowed me to somewhat indulge while keeping it a tiny bit healthier.  Now I buy the multipack of Goldfish grahams, eat the chocolate and honey ones first, and leave the cinnamon ones for last.


TV show: Fringe





I know you're probably not watching Fringe because most people aren't watching.  The ratings are kind of abysmal and it's a miracle it was renewed for this season.  Well, you're missing out.  This show is spectacular.  It is an intelligent program on network TV, which is rare these days.  There is an intricate mythology that has unraveled over the seasons, but there is also weekly cases the team works on.  The show has so much heart and two of the season finales have literally left me with my jaw dropped in shock.  Do yourself a favor and get this one on Netflix if you're not watching.  Oh, and it has Pacey.  Need I say more?


Blog: A & A Friese: Our Adventures





I hope they don't mind that I copied a picture from their blog.  This blog follows the adventures of their absolutely adorable dog Molly (far right) and now her foster (potentially permanent?) brother Brodie (second from right).  And they live in freaking Alaska.  Reading their blog makes me wonder why I live in St. Louis.  Even a mundane activity like going to the dog park gives blog readers spectacular scenery.  They are devoted pit bull lovers working to spread the message and are even working on starting their own rescue group.  Check them out sometime!


Dog Product: The Furminator





I never realized how much dog hair was in our house until I started constantly pulling it out of Elsa's mouth and picking it off her clothes and diapers.  We bought one of these fairly expensive devices for Levi, which is laughable since he has no undercoat.  However, Neptune sheds like crazy and we have become borderline obsessed with brushing him.  I feel like we could go at him all day with this thing and still pull off mounds and mounds of hair.  I feel like it's really cutting down on the dog hair in the house, although I know we'll never be able to get rid of all of it.  If you have a dog that sheds a lot, this product is definitely worth the money.


Book: Harry Potter series





I just finished reading the first book in the series to Elsa.  Yup, the entire book.  When you're alone with a baby all day, every day, you run out of thing to talk about.  So, I started reading these books to her while we're just hanging out.  Rereading these books has made me fall in love with them and the characters all over again.  For instance, I had forgotten that Hagrid gave Hedwig to Harry.  I love relearning all of these little details.


Website: Missouri Botanical Garden Gardening by Month


Last year was the first time we planted a vegetable garden and we learned a lot.  This year, I am going to try to follow the recommendations of MoBot, which has this handy website to tell you what to do every month.  It lists tasks for each week of every month for your ornamentals, fruits, and vegetables.  For example, if I want to plant broccoli or cabbage, I can get those seeds started inside right now.


So, that's about it for me.  Tell me what you're loving these days!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Wordless Wednesday

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[In keeping with my philosophy of "always let the dog initiate," Elsa was already in her spot when Neptune curled up next to her]

Friday, February 10, 2012

The Mysteries of Infant Sleep Patterns

I don't have an iPhone because I am afraid I will be THAT person who checks her email while she is out to dinner and should be interacting with, you know, human beings.  I still have the POS phone from two-and-a-half years ago that I can barely text on, on which the camera phone is broken, and that I can't connect to the internet with.  That being said, I do have an iPod Touch, which allows me to be that crazed technology person, but only when I'm connected to the wireless network at home.  I'm also pretty basic in my choice of apps-I have the usual ones like Twitter, Facebook, and Free Cell.  But I also have this utilitarian one called Baby Connect, which allows me to obsessively track and document every detail of Elsa's short life thus far.


I like using this app because it makes me feel like I have some control in my crazy new life that often feels out-of-control.  In the beginning, it was fantastic because I could tell the nurses at the  hospital exactly how long I nursed and how many wet diapers were created since their last visit to my room.  It also tells me which side I last nursed on, which is extremely helpful when you are a walking zombie who can barely distinguish left from right.  One thing I've been extra-obsessive about tracking is Elsa's night sleep.  I'm fascinated by the little graphs the app produces for me, showing me how many hours total she sleeps/day and I like to see how that changes over time.  The app also graphs the longest sleep during in a 24h period.  This is my favorite graph of in all of app-dom.  This is the graph that tells me how sleep-deprived I am.  And oh how crazy this last week has been.


Before the last 10 days or so, Elsa was on a pretty consistent sleep schedule.  She went to bed at 7, woke up a few times for a quick soothing back to sleep, and then went down for a 6-8h (usually) first stretch of sleep.  So, if I fall asleep at 10:30 and she sleeps seven hours, I am getting 3.5 hours of sleep before she wakes up.  That seven hours doesn't seem so restful for mom now, does it?  Then she would sleep another stretch, this one not as long, and wake up again.


Here is a handy graph from my app showing her longest stretch of sleep during the week Jan 27th.


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There are a few outliers, but it's pretty consistent.


Now, check out the horrendous no-pattern of sleep from this last week:


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What will immediately jump out at you is that pretty unbelievable 12+ hour stretch.  That is the first and only time she has ever completely slept through the night.  I would like to say that it was magical for me, but I was up constantly waiting for her to wake up and checking on her to make sure she wasn't dead.


Now see those short stretches at the tail-end?  What this graph doesn't tell you is that those short stretches of sleep are followed by 1+ hours of soothing back to sleep in the middle of the night.  She isn't fussy, she just wants to party.  And if I finally rock her to sleep, her eyes pop open as soon as I put her in her crib and the process starts all over again.


She has developed this new schedule where she is getting up increasingly earlier and earlier for her first nighttime feeding session-midnight, then 11:15, and 10:45 last night.  I think I'm more dead to the world at an 11:15 feeding than I am at a 3:00 feeding because I have just fallen asleep.  Man, it's hard.  And don't get me started on naps, because those are pretty much a disaster right now.


Apparently all kinds of sleep-disrupting events occur right around now: growth spurt, four-month wakeful where they suddenly realize the world is cool and fun and fight sleep to experience it, developmental milestones like rolling over, and (potentially) teething.  Coming up on four months is a terrifying place to be, my friends.  It's a good thing she's so cute.


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So, moms out there-what was your baby's four-month sleep like?  And more importantly, how long did the misery last???

Friday, February 3, 2012

Elsa: Three Months

I'm a little behind, but my sweet baby girl turned three months on 1/19. I feel like she made a lot of jumps in development between two and three months. She's like a real baby now instead of a newborn. She is such a joy to be around and I wish I could just have fun with her instead of stressing about my dissertation so much right now. But, we still have our adventures and she cracks me up every day.


One thing she loves is her bath. We are still bathing her every other night and she goes completely nuts in the tub. She kicks her legs and splashes water everywhere. She makes such a mess now that we've put her little tub into the big tub upstairs. I can't wait until we can take her swimming-I think she's really going to love it.

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Let's talk about sleep. By the time she turned three months, her nighttime sleep stretches were getting longer and longer. She gets sleepy early, so she usually goes to bed close to 7:00. Sometimes I nurse her before bed and sometimes Jason gives her a bottle of pumped milk. The bottle was a pretty big struggle at first, but she's getting there. It's nice for them to spend a little time together since she goes to bed so early. She is still getting swaddled, but I know we need to break that habit at some point. After she goes down, she usually wakes up a few times before she's good and down. She just needs a little rocking or patting for those wake-ups.

Her first stretch of sleep is the longest and her record is around nine hours, but it's usually closer to six. We are lucky that most nights, she only gets up once or twice, but there is the rare night she's feeling off and wakes up more than that. Then she is usually up for the day between 6-7:15. Weekends are wonderful because I go back to bed after feeding her and Jason gets up with her. Heaven. It's nice for him too because she is completely silly and vocal in the morning-she's just in a great mood. Like here, in one of my favorite pairs of jammies that we retired this week.

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Now, naps are a different story. She will only nap in someone's arms, in the Moby, in the stroller, in bed with me, or in the car (after she stops screaming at red lights). The Moby is probably her favorite.

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But in my arms is nice for her too.

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Month four will involve working harder to get her to sleep in her crib. It's hard because she will sleep over two hours in the Moby, but only like 20min in her crib before she wakes up screaming. Not good. And hard for me because I get no break from her all day long. Fortunately, she is great at playing independently while I do chores and talk to her. In fact, she is my laundry-folding helper and we talk all about the subtle differences between all of my elastic-waistband pants. Yoga pant =/= sweatpants =/= workout pants.

One big developmental milestone she acquired this month was the ability to deliberately grab toys and to bring them to her mouth. She is all about her toys now.

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She's not rolling over yet, but I freely admit we do not do as much tummy time as we should. She HATES tummy time. I do everything I can to make it more interesting-get down on the floor with her, show her toys, put her in front of a mirror, recruit Neptune, etc.

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The only time she gets very fussy is when she's overtired. Normally, she's a smiley, happy girl. She even giggles a little bit too. Like huh-huh-huh. It's adorable.

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Elsa celebrated her first Christmas during this month. Jason took the entire week between Christmas and New Year's off and we had a fantastic holiday together. We didn't spoil her too much. On Christmas Eve, we took her to my mom's house where she had a mini photo shoot with her cousin.

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My mom posing with all of her grandchildren. I'll bet my mom never thought she'd have two granddaughters born in 2011! So bittersweet that my dad never got meet the three youngest ones.

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Posing with mom.

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On Christmas morning, we celebrated with just our little family.

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You already saw how the boys made out, so here is Elsa's haul.

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She got a book, two pink cloth diapers (since all the ones I had bought while pregnant were gender-neutral), the Fisher-Price glow seahorse, and monster jammies for next year. I think she's pissed that she got diapers for Christmas.

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Her big gift was an exersaucer-type thing for when she gets a little older. She looks thrilled, right?

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Later on Christmas Day, we had a lovely celebration at Jason's mom's house. She got a bunch more books (yay!) an adorable outfit, an ornament, and a warm fleece suit. I swear, her grandmas and her auntie spoiled her more than we did! She even got a gift all the way from Maine from my brother and sister-in-law! By the time we got home that night, she was a sleepy girl. We cuddled before she had to go to bed. I just didn't want her first Christmas to be over!

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The next weekend, Elsa met my dad's family for the first time. It was a really fun party because I have a ton of cousins and a lot of them have little kids. We had a blast. One of my uncles reminds me a lot of my dad, so he held her and I tried to imagine my dad holding her. Believe me, having two granddaughters would have been the end-all for him! They would have been spoiled rotten by their Pop Pop!

She got to wear the pretty outfit her grandma gave her.

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So, that pretty much sums up Christmas.

One other big change this month is that Elsa has really found her voice. She coos a lot, squeals and even yells loudly when playing. She goes crazy for the mobile above her changing pad and is constantly yelling and talking to it. She will "sing" with me (even though I'm terrible) and it's really cute. Sometimes she squeals and yells so loudly, you can hear her across the house. It can be a little high-pitched!

Another thing she does now that is so sweet is holding on when you pick her up. She will really grab onto you with her hands. It's heavenly. And when I'm nursing her, she will stroke my shirt or my chest. I love it.

Here is a picture of our little family before Jason and I went to a wedding celebration. It was fun to get all dressed up for once and forgo my usual lounging attire, but I had to get a new dress to accommodate my big boobs.

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Oh, what a great month it was. As we had a quiet New Year's Eve at home, we reflected on our unbelievable 2011. Finding out I was pregnant in February and then having a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby was more than we ever could have wished for. 2011 will definitely go down as one of the best of my life. It's sad to see that Elsa is no longer a little newborn baby (because I LOVE BABIES), but it is fun to see her grow and watch her hit her milestones and see her little personality developing. Here are the last of her two-month photos.

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Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Wordless Wednesday

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